Last Sunday, Y speak topic was what does "It's Complicated" status mean.
They addresses this status in 3 different criteria.
1st one: Fling thing
- What does fling mean many answered: "no sting attached." whew!
Nowadays sobra sa pagka-liberated eh pati ugali ng taga ibang bansa eh nakuha na ata natin... hehehehehe.. For me I'm really against on fling.. Kasi sakit lng yan sa ulo.. Kahit hndi ninyo inaamin may umaasa din kahit isa sa inyo...
2nd one: x(girl) + x(boy) = umaasa sila pa rin.. huh?
- This one is really complicated, kasi break na sila eh pero parang sila naman.. Bettina Carlos was the correspondent of this issue and she have given 5 reasons bakit ito ang nagyayari.
1st reason was mahirap maka-move on... One story told, a girl break up with her boyfriend tapos the boy migrated to states. Ayun na-miss ni girl c x-bf then everyday na ata cla nag-uusap.. Then ang feeling na ng girl is sila pa... Ngek! I guess yung girl is hindi pa nakahanap ng new outlet to explore... hai naku!
2nd reason was anger.. Dahil sa galit nakipag-break na ang girl sa boyfriend niya... Yan kasi nag-seset ng standards... After a year the girl found out may new gf na c boy... Ayun hinahabol niya... Hai naku iha, tanga ka bah... hehehehe..
3rd reason that was given was guilt... This one was weird, hndi niya kakayanin mabuhay kung mawawala bf niya... Wow! Then, the girl who shared this story, sus maryosep ang bata pa.. Parang highskul pa ata.. Ano bah talaga ang nagyayari sa kabataan ngaun? ha?
4th reason and 5th reason medyo nakalimutan ko na.. Pero the 5th reason was the final one.. Meaning naka-move on the yung girl.
Note: Every reason has different stories from different girls.. hehehehehe..
3rd one: Young Querida... ganun?
This is quite intriguing kasi sa generation natin we have young querida's... hahahaha... The girl explains her ups and downs being querida and she admit mahirap talaga kasi nga daw hndi cya s ms.original... hehehehehe.. Pero masya naman cya kasi nabibigay niya daw ang wla kay ms.original... hala, lokohin mo sarili mo... and mind you she believes in true love? what?
* This is the only episode ng Y speak na binigyan ko ng pansin.. Kasi I can relate.. I have cousins kasi na complicated ang mga status nila... May bf1, bf2, bf3, etc... It came to a point na pinagsasabihan ko na talaga sila... Pero nga may kasabihan, "mahirap ituwid ang taong matanda na." Tama bah? hehehehehehe... Sabi nga nila exciting daw... Ewan ko sa inyo... Nowadays kasi madali nalng makahanap na magiging syota mo kasi naman we have the technologies na... We have cellphones, hala txtm8 nung una ngaun baby na... ayayayayay... May internet na, ka-chat mo nung una, ngaun may scandal ka na... hahahahaha.. Sabi nga ni Joe d'Mango sa Y speak, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is a stepping stone to marriage. Naman, give me a couple na hndi nagstart sa ganitong relationship... aber... hehehehehehehe...
Medyo mataas na yata ang reflection ko sa topic na ito... hehehehe.. Kaya kayo dyan, "Love wisely!".. mwah!